Soulmates.
I believe you're soulmate doesn't have to be your spouse. I believe your best friends can be. I have found my two soulmates who are my best friends. We were brought into each other's lives for a reason and I know that for a fact. If God hadn't moved me across the street from one of my best friends, I wouldn't be in church. If I wasn't in church, I wouldn't have met my other best friend. That is how I know we are soulmates. Plus, relationships suck as a teenager. Please wait to get into a serious relationship until you're 18. It'll be worth it.
We are all so close, and do everything together. People would typically say, "I don't know what i'd do without them", but I know what i'd be doing. I'd be in high school, going to parties, smoking wed, and drinking. I know it sounds terrible to say, but it really is true. My soulmate who lives across the street from me introduced me to church and changed my life for the better.
(Speaking of better, that is our favorite song. Check it out. Better by SYML)
If you are trying to find a relationship with a boy or a girl, don't rush it. There is always someone who will be there for you no matter what, always support you, and always love you. Your best friend/s. Breakups happen in relationships, and it all shatters. You can try to rebuild it, but if you've broken up before, it's likely it won't work out. Guess what? Friendships have breakups too, but they are always rebuilt and can last forever.
I can tell you this from experience. Since there are three of us, it is very hard to keep secrets. Quite impossible actually. I once told one of my friends who I liked, but I made her promise not to tell our other friend, because it was her ex. She found out the day of, but I didn't know until two days later. I was upset with who I told for obvious reasons, but my other friend was really upset with me which was understandable. This happened over a year ago. I didn't hold it against my friend and my friend didn't hold it against me. I forgave and she forgave. We all love each other so much it is unexplainable. Soulmate proof.
Your soulmate could be your best friend. You just might not realize it. So examine your friends. Could they possibly be your soulmate? I didn't realize my best friends were my soulmates until one of them pointed it out. Please, be thankful for your friends, because they will always be there for you. They will always be honest with you, and they will always love you no matter what.
"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends."
-John 15:13
